🎯 Welcome to the Education Matrix 🎯
"Armin" is my friend. From birth until age 7, he always imitated his parents and the adults around him. He laughed like his dad, cooked like his mom, spoke like his uncle, and bought toys like his cousin... 👶🏻
However, between the ages of 7 and 18, Armin changed and wanted to choose his clothes based on his parents' suggestions, decide when to have dinner, and decide whether to shower. 👦🏻
But from the age of 18 until the end of his life, he made his own life decisions and moved his life forward... 👱🏻♂
You can read this story in most educational books about the growth mindset in children and young adults, but the reality is much more complex than this...
🎯 Welcome to the Education Matrix 🎯 The fact is that you can't talk about the power of decision-making at a certain age, and currently, various age groups are not involved in decision-making but rather in surrendering...
- What does surrender mean?
- Surrender means: When you are scrolling through posts of yourself on Instagram and ask whether you are here to see something specific or you are just doing it out of habit.
The reality is that most people are surrendering while watching 90% of the time. 🗿
90% of people are letting fear (FOMO) guide them by running on the Hamster wheel.
90% blindly follow whatever is trendy and in fashion due to surrender, registering for new classes out of surrender...
And at the same time, they are under the illusion that they are making all these decisions.
It may sound harsh, but if we are satisfied with the results of our lives, then we can continue with the same old formula. However, if our current life comes with dissatisfaction, then there are points for change, awareness to gain, and wrong mindsets to break.
The golden point is that change comes from decision, not from surrender. 🎖
🔮 Worth considering: Growth and the experience of happiness are very easy among people who are 95% engaged in surrender.
I hope you're here by choice and care about your growth. ❤️