I feel this. I have two boys, was raised with 6 sisters so their behavior is sometimes foreign to me. My husband reassures me it's "just how boys are" and that seems to be what you're saying here too. It can be a lot but I've adapted to the loudness and energy pretty well I think! My son's are awesome but I babysit another little boy who sets my eldest into rages sometimes, thats super tough... I try to help them talk it out... It kind of works.
Great post :)