People only think it is unfair because it is different yet they are trying to understand it by comparing it to things they know. Can I elaborate? I am trying to help. I too want it more positive.

I view this like giving a rope to someone that they can start climbing with, and instead they fashion nooses and choose to hang themselves.

It is all a matter of perception.

https://steemit.com/steemit/@dwinblood/that-person-is-not-worthy-neither-are-you-neither-am-i-but-who-is-do-things-my-way-or-else