Thanks for your support on this matter.. I dont think he is all that bad, i think he may just have been as passionate as me but coming from the other direction so we clashed pretty hard which is fine, i can understand that. its just not fine saying those type of things to other people who just commented their opinions on my post not on his comment. We have since talked and figured it out and i am happy about that. all flags have been removed. :) understanding and forgiveness are so incredibly important these days and it is very under rated. hate only breeds more hate and that is not what i am about..