I liked this discussion so much. I am also uncomfortable with women exploiting themselves sexually because I see every human being as being so bestowed with creative energy. And plus, also, I was exploited in my youth, so I am highly sensitive to such exploitation. I didn't suffer too much, but I suffered a lot psychologically from the exploitation. After that time, I dressed in mens clothes, refused to wear makeup or dresses....I never wanted any male attention. I'm still like this actually, to a degree. I've never worn any dress that shows cleavage either. It might be my personality or a reaction to being exploited.
anyway, that's probably why i am uncomfortable with a spread-eagle crotch shot as the click bait title. But i liked the issues that were raised, by both, a male and a female. Without @veralynn's voice, though, I would not have felt as good. Thanks to @veralynn who made it worthwhile.