Be an example to your children

in #steemiteducation7 years ago (edited)

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I see so many children acting up and getting into so much trouble. Most of it is what they have learned from their parents or parent acting up. I see it all the time in peoples homes, at the doctors etc, in the car.
I see parents showing their bad mood to the fullest or cursing or having road rage and cursing with their children right there taking it all in. And then the parents get mad when the children act out like them and they get yelled out and spanked.
One person I know yells at her children constantly for them being exactly like she is! I have talked to her and given her advice to no avail about having patience with your child and only showing them love and even discipline with love.
I'm tired of seeing children suffer at the hands of their parents, I guess because as my children told me, not everyone can be like I was. If I was in a bad mood they never knew it. Even when I was mad they never knew it. I never raised my voice or my hand to them. That's why I got respect.
This is cliche but it's true they are only a child for a little while and adults forever
Put your children above everything else they are the most important thing in your life you made them now love them!
I am the way I am because I was like my parents they were wonderful and I never knew when the didn't have money or fought they kept that to themselves.
To many parents today put their children in adult situations and that's so sad.
Love your children let them be who they are and remember they are following your example
Peace and love ceci

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@cecirod1218 this is an incredible post. Have a good weekend♥

Thank you Denise!❤️

So true.

It doesn't matter how good of a parent you are, it's always good to have things like this as a constant reminder and continue to strive for improvement.

Exactly! Thank you for your comment😊

before thinking about having a baby, work on patience and peace of mind :)

Yes that's perfect! Thank you❤️

Really great post and so true! Having kids is a blessing and you should only show them kindness and love. I hate seeing parents who verbally abuse their kids and then get mad when the kids act out aggressively.

Yes I hate it to and the reason my husband of twenty years left me is because I was always crying about how many children I saw were being treated it breaks my heart, thank you for liking my post❤️❤️

Great words of wisdom.. much love

Thank you!!!❤️❤️

Well written my friend ceci.....I am father of 1 year son...thank you for sharing great things

Man, I will tell you what....I felt real accomplishment today when my daughter told me she had to go potty. She dropped pants and straight to the toilet. #1, but she loved it so much and got a sticker. She was proud of that sticker for hours before bed. Her brother refused and still refuses to use the potty and was PISSED that he didnt get a sticker too....Well, sorry dude. No potty no sticker.

Excellent writing about children

Wonderful post, gonna save it for the future ;P

I never yell or raise my voice. I never raised a hand to my children and now grandchildren. We have a lot of love and respect in our house. I also see many homes that have nothing but strife, anger and fighting. The children of these families suffer.

Yes they do and its so sad I cry alot for the children bug hugs❤️