Should Punish Children ?

in #steemiteducation7 years ago (edited)
When viewed more deeply, the actual behavior of children is dependent on physical development, emotional, age, and also his personality. But what often happens is the behavior of children is considered problematic when not in accordance with the expectations of parents.

Nearly 90 percent of parents claim to have given physical punishment to their children, whereas this physical punishment will have a harmful impact when the child grows up. Did you know that physical violence in children can cause a disturbed child's emotional balance? There may be parents who think, by giving a physical punishment hard enough to be able to stop the mischief of his son. But unfortunately it can lead to other problems.


Because even if the child is only occasionally beaten, it can still cause the child to become unconfident and easily stressed. The question is, can we print great children by creating barriers and fears within them? Maybe we are a generation formed by a million threats, such as buckles, ratters, and so on. But that does not mean that way we need to pass on to our children and grandchildren. Times have changed!


Punishment for children is often a question for many parents. Some choose to punish, while others choose to allow the child's mistakes. Often punishments that are threatening or fearful do not work in children. They will react negatively and not improve behavior.


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I frequently hear people discussing, wether physical punishment is acceptable. I think its more about the intensity. Psychic punishments can be extremely harmful, too.

It is important to understand the sensitivity of the particular child and react adequately. As a unsufficient reaction and uncorrected inacceptable behaviour will harm the child in the long run, too.

I guess there a couple of situations where somebodey (and here I am not exclusively speaking about children) gets into a mentals state where nothing but a physical stimulus reachis her or him, but usually there are so many better ways.

My three favourite ones (as a teacher):

  • Starring into the childs eyes for five seconds
  • Approaching closely (face to face less than 50 cm / 0.5 yd)
  • Instead of criticising "You talk to loud" asking "Why are you talking so loud?" Than at least wait for an answer for five seconds.

I love specially the last one because sometimes a child has reasons and she or he can be correctet by logic or at least understood.

For me as a theacher it is extremely problematic when a child is often yeld at or even beaten because there "receiver" is set by that to a super high "threshold" and my comparatively "weak signal" is not reaching her or him.

I have to punish rarely and usually just point out bad behaviour which is corrected by my students quickly.

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