For many people, this fight against the dark side is one of the most exciting in most human life's struggles. Reality shows a constant change between the dark side and the other side in us to imagine one of the winners.

To contrast, a writer who is also a clinical hypnotherapist Kyle Varner from Maryland, gives a tip how to respond normally to our dark side.

First, according to him is the observation of our dark side. Nothing escapes this dark side. Precisely saying that those who are touting that he will not be on this dark side, are the most vulnerable in this dark side hole. Therefore, first is the pattern (trend) of this dark side tendency of ourselves. The same step does not struggle, but reflects on what the dark side does.

Behind the dark side there is a need and desire that may not be fulfilled, or the understanding of unfinished business in our lives. Indeed, the dark side should not be followed, but positively responded that the dark side shows that we are real. Reality shows more of the greater things in us, the more we feel panicked and stalled.

According to Kyle Verner, by realizing and realizing this dark side first, then we can learn to control it. Halela is a rolling energy to achieve the quality of our life. On the one hand we will have the possible negative traits, but the things that can make life stronger. Especially if we are able to control even conquer the dark side. Many people struggle against their dark side, eventually achieving a far more extraordinary quality of self.