The lovercoaster ( or how a relationship looks like .. a house)

in #story7 years ago (edited)

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Its like moving into a new house.

At first you are very excited. Its all unfamiliar. It doesn’t matter whether its an old or a new place – it’s your new home.
So you start making it feel like one.
You paint the walls in a color that you like, you put cabinets, you fix the wardrobe or you buy a new table. You want it to be cozy. After all - this your home.
There might be some things that you don’t like – so you try to change them. Maybe the living room is too square, so you get a round sofa, or maybe the bedroom is too small, so you give up on the king size bed you dreamed to have rest in. But you don’t pay attention. This is your new home.
Then life starts to happen. You realize you need a bigger bed because you can’t sleep well. The apartment feels too small and it suffocates you, so you doubt whether you should have invested in a bigger one. So you start thinking.
Why? - You chose it. You thought it would feel like home.
But you don’t want to go to a new place either. So you start redecorating. You put flowers in the living room so you don’t feel so square, and you buy new sheets for the bedroom, hoping it would bring different life into it. But it doesn’t work out. You still have nightmares at night. You still think that the sofa can’t change the squareness of the living room no matter what you try or do.
You start asking yourself questions. Did I make the right choice. Is this my real home. Should have I chosen more carefully. But as much as you doubt – you still love this place. You have put your heart into it. You wanted to make it your home. And you keep believing that the effort that you’ve put into it will pay off.
The thing is – this apartment will never get bigger. And you can’t have a king size bed in it. It just can’t fit. And the different color of the walls doesn’t make them larger, nor the flowers in the living room you buy every week. But damn it, if you love this place, then why it doesn’t make you happy. Why does it give you bad dreams and why can’t you feel relaxed when you come back.
And then you know. You can’t change it.
You can either sell it, or tear it to the ground. You can either buy a new place with the criteria you have, or build one. Either way – you need to make a choice. And you’ve put so much love and devotion into this place – you wanted it to be your home so bad….
So what is it gonna be – stay there, tear it down and build it up, or have a new one?
You choose. Its your house...
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Nice Title ! ! !

( You are Hot BTW if that is your Avatar Picture ! )

Welcome to Steemit . . .

u R followed...

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this is me yes, and thanks for the follow :)

It is probably against the law in this krazy modern world to tell a pretty lady that she is pretty . . .

As a guy do not even think of saying to a parent they have pretty kids..

This modern world is krazy, if you want me to be your friend forever; please pick me up in your Doctor Who Tardis time machine and take me back to 1982...

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Oh, if it iS against the law to say you are pretty, pLeAsE do NOT call the Police...

LoL . . .

I think we are all " stuck "in the ' here and now ' ;(

This is part of my TRUE Real Life Story :)

After my Divorce my x-wife moved into a small two level Duplex.

She used the divorce settlement money is some very unusual ways; LoL.

One of those ways was when she bought herself a huge king sized Canopy Bed . . .

Trouble was the room size, allowed only THREE bed poles to be installed.

The fourth corner of the bed was held up by a pile of books :)

That fourth bed-post lay on the bedroom floor of my Daughter's room...

TRuE sToRy ! ! !

/ Hugz ;)

[ I cannot recall if the canopy was ever installed ] LoL.

now all of that money she got in the divorce settlement is long gone . . .

hehe, glad u co-related! its true... life is very ironic! i have followed you too :)

Very true @anadobrevska very true. I am moving house in a couple of weeks. It's rented and furnished so not much changing to be happening, however I like it. Its going to do the job for a year or more Until I can save up and buy my land and go free!

it is a metaphore though... the house is the relationship :)

Yes it is and my relationship relates to this very well moving into a fully furnished house without my partner !

hope it wokrs well for you! :) hope its a nice house :)