Empathy as super power? A story of how a change of attitude has saved the lives of more than 70 abandoned dogs [English]
What would you say if you were asked to choose a super power to save lives?
To find out, we asked this question to several people, and we invite them to answer the first thing that came to their mind. The answers we got were really interesting. Some answers were very funny, others somewhat philosophical, and some were more realistic.
Here are some of the answers we got:
- Become invisible, be able to fly and be immune to any physical damage
- Magic hands that allow me to fix everything I touch
- Go back in time
- Control of nature
- Disposition, time and money
- Teleportation
- To stop time
- Photographic memory
- Super intelligence
- Telekinesis
- An app that invokes a super heroes team
- Communicate with animals
Naturally, due to the type of question, we expected to get answers of all kinds, especially because when we hear the term ‘superpowers’, we tend to make associations with movies, comics and other stories of superheroes with fantastic powers.
After the laughter and the discussion of the most extravagant or philosophical answers, we changed the question. This time it was:
Then, the answers took a different course. Some of this were:
- Wisdom
- Empathy
- Responsibility and commitment
- Goodness
- Prudence and simplicity
- Humility
- Generosity
- Solidarity
- Honesty
- Ethics
This moment was useful to remind us how important these values are in all of our daily activities. If each one of our actions were motivated, for example, by empathy, kindness and wisdom, we could become real superheroes and even save lives, however irrelevant or simple our actions may seem. And this is something that all of us can achieve if we propose to do so.
That is why we want to share Mariela’s story: a woman who has changed her conventional lifestyle for a life devoted to rescue abandoned dogs , motivated by empathy and generosity towards animals.
Meet Mariela
Mariela is 59 years old and lives with her family in Guatemala. She worked for more than 20 years as a teacher in a public school in her country. Mariela consider herself a very lucky person: she has been surrounded by people who love her and help her, and she has always had the opportunities to develop as a person and contribute to society. In her case, as an educator.
So for many people of the XXI century, Mariela lives a normal and quiet life: she worked and she always had what it gets to live comfortably.
After retiring a few years ago, her daily routine changed. Like many retirees, she got involved in new activities and met new people. But the most interesting thing was that Mariela discovered a completely new reality in her own home: situations that had always been there but which she had never fully realized.
Her daughter, Silvia, has a great affection for animals, and has always helped those who she can. Mariela noticed that her daughter was always coming and going from the vet with injured or sick dogs. Some of these dogs stayed at her house while they recovered. Mariela thought this was a very kind and exemplary action, but she never got actively involved... until Sky arrived: a female husky that had been abandoned on the street in very bad conditions.
Changing the mindset: Sky’s arrival
Three years ago, Silvia, Mariela’s daughter, took home a husky who was very sick and weak. "When Sky got home, I was surprised by how hungry she was. She was looking for food in all corners and was trying to eat as much as she could" says Mariela.
Sky's difficult situation shocked her and made her aware of the suffering that stray dogs have to face, especially those who have been abandoned. Hunger, cold, physical pain and anguish are feelings that we have all experienced as people... why should it be different for animals?
Then Mariela thought she could help other dogs, and began to feed those who passed by her house. She started to take care for some of the dogs she saw in severe conditions, and took them to the vet. Mariela adopted two of them: Canela and Max. At first, she rescued about one dog each month. But now, not a week goes by without Mariela taking one to the vet to recover.
Over time, Mariela has met people and organizations that help her to get adopters for the dogs she rescues, since she does not have enough room to offer them a shelter. Now, with the generous collaboration of many people, Mariela has helped not only the recovery of injured and abandoned dogs, but also has found a home for every dog she has rescued ... And these cases have been more than few: Mariela has helped more than 70 dogs in recent years!
A day in a superhero's life: a day in a dog rescuer’s life
Mariela every effort to help stray dogs. She began by feeding them, and then she realized the importance of sterilization, as this prevents more dogs from continuing to suffer.
The first thing Mariela does when she finds abandoned or injured dogs in the street is taking them to the vet. At the clinic, the veterinarian applies the necessary treatments for their recovery. If they are in good health (this is, if they are not hurt or sick), they are sterilized before placing them up for adoption. If it is not possible to sterilize them, Mariela keeps in touch with the person who adopted the dog for the sterilization once he has recovered.
After the dogs receive the necessary medical treatments, Mariela takes them to her home so the dogs can recover while someone adopts them. Mariela posts most of the rescue stories on Facebook to raise awareness about the terrible conditions faced by many stray dogs, and ways one can take to help them.
Mariela runs with all the expenses and resources for the recovery of each dog, and she doesn’t charge anything for doing so. The only condition she asks to the adopter is to take good care of the dogs and to give them love and affection, just as other member of their family.
She also keeps in contact with each adopter. Sadly, there have been some cases in which the dogs have returned, but fortunately, Mariela have found another home where a family take care of them.
A change of attitude as a life-changing experience
Now Mariela uses most of her time and her salary to help stray and abandoned dogs. The desire to buy things or conduct activities for her own benefit has been replaced by the desire to help the animals. And this has represented a radical change in her lifestyle.
Contrary to what one might think, the changes in Mariela's lifestyle did not imply that she stopped practicing exercise, buying clothes or having lunch with her friends. What she did change was the way and the motivation to conduct these activities: she practices yoga to keep her mind calm in difficult situations, she buys clothing only when necessary and the relationship with people has improved because she has become more empathetic.
The biggest challenges
Fortunately, Mariela has the support of her family to devote herself to this activity. Over time she has been reducing personal expenses to cover all costs necessary for the recovery of each dog.
Mariela says that the most difficult thing she has to face is that there is no local dog shelter where sick or injured animals can be taken to treat them. Therefore, much of her time and most of her salary is used to help dogs.
Many people have identified with Mariela's work and support her by donating dog food, giving room to help dogs, or donating money to cover some expenses. The recovery of dogs is the result of the effort and goodwill of many people who support Mariela’s initiative.
The reward
"Seeing that a dog is no longer suffering and is now healthy and part of a family that loves him is the most satisfying thing about my job," says Mariela. But she has also seen positive changes that she had not initially considered. Mariela has proven that many people around her are now more compassionate and respectful towards animals. "When you help, the benefits of your actions expand in ways you did not expect," she says.
Mariela emphasizes that changes in one's attitude are also surprising. When you acquire an attitude of service, you are willing to change your lifestyle -like cutting many expenses- to have enough resources to help. Mariela considers that this attitude is unconsciously transferred to other activities. She has seen that now easier to put herself in other’s position, and this has strengthened her relationship with other people.
The lesson behind Mariela's story
When we ask our friends and family What superpower would you choose to save lives? initially many thought of all kinds of fantastic physical abilities, others gave more realistic answers and we even discussed more philosophical issues with some of them. But we reach the same conclusion in every discussion: without empathy, we are simply like an imprisoned superhero.
No matter how much material resources or what extraordinary physical abilities we have... if we can’t identify with the other’s suffering, it will be very difficult, even impossible, to help them.
Mariela’s story shows us that by changing certain attitudes and developing empathy, it is truly possible to become of great benefit to others... and we can see that the aid has not been just for a few. More than 70 dogs that were previously suffering are now part of a family that cares for them and loves them.
Minor changes that Mariela made in her daily routine (for example, when she started feeding stray dogs) might at first seem very small, but these actions helped her develop the firmness to relieve the suffering of these animals after seeing how many dogs were getting better.
All the superheroes we see in movies, comics and popular stories have a common aspect: the willing to help others. Then, we realize that we do not need to teleport, fly or return in time to save lives. If we develop empathy and use our wonderful human capacity, we can also become superheroes.
It's your chance to help!
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Empathy has many different definitions that encompass a broad range of emotional states, including caring for other people and having a desire to help them; experiencing emotions that match another person's emotions; discerning what another person is thinking or feeling
Hello, @beulahlandeu! Totally agree. That is why when looking for a title for our publication, we consider that 'empathy' was an important word, because we want to emphasize that the capacity to identify with other’s suffering, in this case, the suffering that abandoned dogs face, is what motivates many people to act and help them. We all have gone through a painful situation, physically or mentally, so we know what it feels like to suffer. Then, when we are able to recognize and identify with other being’s suffering (in this case, the difficult situations faced by stray dogs and abandoned dogs), a force arises and pushes us to help them, in order to lift them out of these painful situations and prevent further suffering for them.
Thanks for taking the time to read our post and for your comment. We want to keep sharing more inspiring stories about animal rescue to support the exemplary people who assist animals in distress, and also, to support the recovery of rescued animals.
I'm sorry to do this here, but can you help me please? Is for my dogs!
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