we can only be right if we make someone else wrong

this is a serious epidemic in a competitive matrix. This can relate to the Judgement card as we have a tendency to judge others for things we do not like about ourselves. Projecting those bad behaviors ( gas lighting). I am super sensitive to caddy and judgemental energies.. I like to think of my clown friends in their clown courtroom... super over sized mallet and a sign hanging from his podium that read "Judge Mental". if ever I fall to Judge Mental thoughts.. I giggle, come back to center, and ask myself, am I that behavior? When we become the observer of this behavior, the Wheel of Fortune is released?