I feel you! But also, these things don't have to be mutually exclusive. I know several wonderful women who have little ones and still travel. As translocalists, they learn the language and really become part of the community either enrolling their children in "kita" or schools abroad, or "worldschooling" them—another concept that totally excites me. I love the idea of radically new ways of living especially for women, and new ways of raising children so that instead of being ushered into complacency, they learn to thrive.