“Oh it’s your fault, why do you dress that way?”

“This is the culture and it’s just the way it is!”

“It means you are attractive and you should take it as a compliment.”

None of the above are true. The main problem is men are jerks and are taught to act as jerks.
This has to stop. It is our obligation as fathers (and mothers!) to remove this behaviour from our culture.
There is another option... for that I would recomend the book "The Gate to Women's Country" from Sheri S. Tepper. I have it in ebook format to whoever wants it.
Marvelous post!