RE: #Ulog | #4 | The aftermath and what my conclusion of it is
Thanks for being so courageous to share with us what you're experiencing now in your relationship, @harktheshark. Getting on with our own selves is so hard, much less getting on with other people and a special someone.
If you agree that trust, money and goals are issues in your relationship, you can pave the way for improvements by working on these issues within yourself first.
Relationships only mirror what's going on inside of each of us that we need to look at and improve. So dive down deeper in to those three issues of trust, money and goals and start improving yourself in those areas. That will in turn have a huge impact first in your own life but also in your relationship.
Plus focusing on improving these areas in your life will help you stay calm and less stressed when there are hiccups between your love and yourself.... because you'll be focused every day on taking concrete, real steps to improve those three big areas in your life. Those three are always HUGE issues in all of our individual lives.. including those of total strangers on the internet. ;)
Best wishes and sending lots of Angel healing and Blessings for you and your partner.
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wow i really appreciate your kind words. I think it will take some time, since it is my behavioral pattern towards relationships. I have been always focused on the 'us' instead of the me. There will be the change for sure :) thank you very much
You're very Welcome, @harktheshark!
Just keep in tune with your feelings and your desire to transform and keep moving forward and you will succeed. These lives of ours are mostly wonderful marathons not sprints, thank goodness... so there's a bit of time. ;)