In the midst of society and by generational concept, it is established and written, that all children who grow up without noticing a father figure in the home, end up being problematic and full children of prejudices, but from own experience and lived from very close, this is an ill-conceived hypothesis, since not in all the cases it is a reality; I would like to share with all of you part of my experiences both with my own life and with that of my son, so that you can see the difference, in different cases.

There are cases, where children who grow up without a father figure, are still young and adults with irreproachable behavior, in my opinion, everything will depend on the attitude of his mother and how she educates him and help him to grow with principles , for me, of course it is important and it would become much easier to raise a child with a father in the house, but that is not totally a priority for a child to grow up to be good or bad for not having a father figure, that does not determine it, since every human being has its own behavior with which it is born and is in the other part to help the child's education and growth.

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Why is it that for many or for society it is logical to think that the figure of a father is determining the good behavior of the child? that in my case I consider it a negative thought, because we will have hard-working mothers and we want the best for our children, and even knowing that they lack a father figure, we strive much more to give the best education and principles to our children. Not everything depends on the father, those who have believed that a father determines codes of conduct of a child, I consider it a mistake, they are not the moral guide of a child, since many homes have a father figure, which are not the best example for children, and despite seeing their behavior, do not try to imitate them, but rather, try to do their best to overcome what they see wrong in them, so that does not depend on the father but the upbringing The child receives from his first steps.

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If I talk a little about myself, my paternal grandmother raised me, a woman of hard character but with very solid principles in this society, I did not allow you mistakes in your life of behavior and, despite growing up in the middle of the economy. . Narrow, I never forget a good advice in time to direct my destiny for good, and without mentioning that the father figure was my father, but he never cared for me, but even seeing all this, I believed. that my destiny forged me with the good education that my grandmother gave me, not doing bad things, but all good ones, and recognizing to the world that I did not need a mother or a father to be the woman, that I am today. .

I dedicated myself so that my son did not lack anything, to give him the best, never to be absent, to teach him principles of very good education and respect and nowadays, he is a good man and in a few days he will marry, with a good woman, who Together they will make their own children the best men and women.

Study, I graduated and now I have the best principles under the government of God, who has been my best guide in wisdom, and all the glory is for my God.

And if I talk about the case of my son, today a young adult of 24 years, who literally grew up alone with me, from 3 years of age, I was in need of divorce from his father and this, not only divorced of me, but also of him, since he left us alone without any help, however he did not need it in certain aspects, of course it is always important that the father is present, but it is not a priority of weight, because I repeat, the attitude of the mother if she is a very good mother, I assure you that she will take that child on the right path and with an excellent education.

We know that in extreme cases, there are children who are affected by the lack of a father, and this leads to unpleasant behavior as they are;

• Rebellion
• Disobedience
• Rude
• Low self-esteem
• Poor school performance
• Big bad behavior
• Trend to crime
• Tendency to prostitution
• Tendency to make bad parents in the future

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I could continue listing many more causes of abandonment of children by parents, but I repeat they are not in all cases, because all this will depend on the mother and that she will teach that child.

Give your baby the best education from his first steps, it is the best therapy for a child to grow in health and wellbeing.

I bless you greatly, happy day for all.
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