Such wise words @wwf. Community is always difficult even the community of two that is based on love ;) The more people are involved and the more grown up they get, the more potential of conflict there is. I decided for myslef, that even though I have a very strong desire to live in a community I will live "alone" with my wife and kids to accomplic cooperative community by helping others and exchanging things, work and support. This kind of "distant" community feels to be the very right thing for me!