Not every man or woman fits into these patterns—people are so different. I had a friend, for example, who once drove six hours to meet someone he connected with through seksiseuraa. At first, I thought it was just about the physical side of things, but after hearing him talk about the way they bonded over shared interests and deep conversations, it was clear it wasn't just about sex. They ended up dating for almost two years. I think it really depends on the person and the situation. For some, sex and emotions are tightly connected; for others, they’re separate.