Resilience

From the emotion that we separate from us we make a representation, that is,
«We represent» in memory a past event.
Resilience, therefore, can only be made after the blow.
At first we suffer, we feel
panic, we are shocked, we are afraid, we do not have it, we defend ourselves, we
we discuss how we can, but later, when representation becomes possible,
when the family or cultural environment allows to carry out this work of representation,
we look for the words then, we try to convince, we elaborate strategies
psychological so that the trauma never comes back.
It is this mobilization that keeps the emotion at a distance and allows us to take over the situation.
Thus, we carry out resilience work.
Because emotion is transformed, metamorphosed.