advice to avoid resentment

Patience means self suffering. -ghandi. **when you are patient with someone it means you are going to be the bearer of negativity, absorb the negativity in an endless string, and when the person who is giving you the negativity runs out of string, you will have the string from beginning to end and you can dispose of the negativity like a piece of old twine.

meanwhile the person giving the negativity has run out of string and they are now open to change, they now see clearly, their thoughts and actions are no longer clouded by negativity.

by absorbing and containing and disposing of negativity you then allow any situation to diffuse and reach total peace and love.

Negativity has MANY places to originate from, BUT it CAN have a place to end, you can help end negativity by being patient and suffering the woes of others