Trying to be a pious woman is difficult

in #woman6 years ago

Some women who begin to emigrate say "trying to be a pious woman is difficult, because the one who scoffs a lot", maybe such a statement is true.

Because not a few of us met someone who chose to emigrate instead of flooding of insults, but some also flooded him with good prayers and support.

However, whatever it is you should never be fixated on human judgment, if only God sees perfectly your heart, because all you have to think about is God's love, whereas human love is only a bonus.

So, if at the beginning of the migration our decision to be better still in doubt by some others is okay, do not bother with their judgment, provided Allah knows very well that you really have been on His way.

Face those who comment badly on you calmly and patiently, because the more you are patient the closer the love of God is to you.

Do not let you lose to their scorn, keep your heart with deep sincerity, because the more you are busy accepting their scorn, the more you will not focus on improving yourself.

That's why you must continue to fight their bad behavior with patience, because in the end they will be tired of sneering at you.

The point is to control your heart not to respond to them with hatred or the same thing, because if you are like that then you really are no different from them.

Just calm your heart by continuing to believe that God is with you, and be assured that every difficulty must end with ease.

Control your heart not to down with inappropriate statements or questions from them that are sometimes overdue, because what you have to look for is a value from God, not from humans.

if there are some people who still doubt your hijrah, don't mind them, the important thing is that you really make changes to His way.

Be aware, being a better person or changing yourself into piety requires the name of struggle, so be patient and sincere for everything that happens.

No need to enter into their bad words, just make a reminder that you have to be better in the future.


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