BEING A BRIDE
Bride is a woman on her wedding day, just before or just after wedding. Its a wonderful thing to be a bride. Take it or leave it, the bride is the centre of attraction on the wedding day. That is why most ladies do everything they can to look beautiful that day. go for spa, nice hair, nice makeup, lovely attire, nice accessories, some learn how to smile, practice what to do all over before that day. The unfortunate aspect is that most ladies uses days, weeks, months even years to prepare for wedding but not marriage.
Being a bride has attracted a lot to people's normal life. Some people that doesn't like you as a person might want to associate with you that day. Some will go extra length to make the day extravagant while not considering their purse. A lot of advise will set in, good and bad but will disguise in form of counsel. Some women will stop associating with their single friends once they get married, that is wickedness of the highest order because if care isn't taken, it might make them feel depressed, result to low self-esteem,put yourself in their shoe. All of you cannot marry at the same time, one must come first. If is because you are scared of them snatching your husband, then it means you are the same with them. "birds of same feathers,flocks together". Marriage is not the end of the world, you might even be the one they will look up to for advise. You don't even know if your married friends are the devil that will scatter your home.
Like I said, being a bride is a wonderful experience, but don't let the curiosity makes you do what is not dignifying. Don't bleach your skin, make sure you wear what will make you comfortable, if you are not use to high heel, you can go for a lower one, don't spend all your money to look good, don't beg or borrow to become a bride. Be simple and wear dignity.
I will leave you with this story and I want you to leave a comment, a lady has 4 friends, they have been together since secondary school, after graduation, within 3years, the 4 got married except her, they all stopped talking to her, 2years later, she fixed her wedding date,the friends started calling her to plan with her. if you are the one, what will you do?
Such is life. When ladies get married they tend to look down on their friends who are still single. She should welcome them with open arms. No better way of paying back than running it off on their faces that you are also getting married.