I CANNOT SETTLE FOR LESS

Enough is Enough. you are a woman, you are beautiful, nobody has the right to call you ugly if he/she isn't your creator. Enough of abuse of any kind, if you don't stand for something, you will fall for everything. Being single is not a disease, its just a process of learning. I remembered years ago, I was in a relationship, the guy was pissed off because of my openness, the relationship did not work out, that same openness that made him got pissed off is what makes my husband to love me more. Never change from your real self just to fit in for any man. Stop begging a man, you aren't a beggar. The man that will love you for who you are will definitely love you.
Be real with your life. Relationship is not a salary job, don't be a liability to any man. You must always work on yourself so as to command respect from a man, you must be a able to contribute something tangible always. Stop waiting for a man to give you money before you do great things, I am not saying you should marry a stingy man. The hair style you can't afford, don't do it, anything you can't personally afford, stop asking, borrowing or begging for it unless its a gift.
Don't bury your destiny because of a man, marriage doesn't mean you should look haggard, it doesn't mean you shouldn't work or look good. Marriage doesn't mean your brain has shut down, make yourself a type of woman that the husband will always seek her opinion before taking decision. Never marry a man that is jealous of your success. DIGNITY must and will be restore to womanhood.