Be an independent woman, let the man look up-----------做一个独立的女子，让男人仰视
"My first half life" this TV play is probably a lot of people have seen it. For Luo Zijun inside, I don't much comment, how pathetic the fall is, and how gorgeous it is. Because I trust a man, so intently at home xiangfujiaozi housewives; when the man was tired of her lazy, was forced to abandon the cold to go out to work, such a sad woman, tell us what such a life experience, a woman can not work, no time to tell myself as an independent woman, do not let a man look up, and at least a man head, can not let the man down.
As a species, there is always a sense of superiority, and there is always a desire for control. For thousands of years, most women rely on men to live. I am grateful to live in such an age, to allow women to read and school, to allow women to have a job that can support themselves as well as men. I have always advocated that women stand on their own. A job gives a woman not only a full meal, but also a respect, a good confidence that has left a man to pass.
I always think of who are not on their own, men will change, parents have the old one day, the children have their own lives to live, so we go to the money and who want only our own. So I advise women friends, leave a space for one person in your heart for yourself, don't put all the love to others, also must learn to love ourselves, selfless dedication may be rewarded, but the society also have examples of impossible to acquire a peaceful end!
As an independent woman, must have a copy of your work, no matter how much money, as long as there is a copy of your income to live hard, at least you don't have to talk to talk to when a pair of shoes or want to buy clothes, not to wait for a man to give you a reply of the money. Honey can't be eaten as a meal, and the man who makes you quit home and is a housewife does not really love you. Only a true and true job can give you a lifetime of reliance and steadfast.
As an independent woman, not the end, just let yourself have a backbone, let the men left women still live comfortable.
《我的前半生》这部电视剧大概很多人看过吧，对于里边的罗子君我不多评价，摔的有多惨，逆袭的就有多华丽。因为踏实的信任一个男人，所以专心的在家相夫教子做家庭主妇；当这个男人厌烦了她的不思进取，又被冷酷的抛弃被逼无奈出去工作，这样的一个可悲女人，这样的一段人生经历告诉我们什么，女人不能没有工作，任何时候都要告诉自己做一个独立的女子，做不到让男人仰视，至少和男人平视，不能让男人俯视。
男人这个物种，总有一种优越感，总有一种控制欲，千百年来大多数的女人都是依靠男人来过活。我感谢生活在这样的一个年代，能让女子读书上学，能让女子与男子一样拥有一份能养活自己的工作。我历来倡导，女性自立。一份工作带给女子的不仅仅是吃饱饭，更重要的是一份尊重，一份离开了男人照样能过的很好的自信。
我总认为靠谁都不如靠自己，男人会变心，父母有老的一天，孩子有自己的日子要过，那么钱我们去和谁要，唯有我们自己。所以我奉劝女性朋友们，在自己的内心给自己留一席之地，别把所有爱心都献给别人，也要好好的爱自己，无私的奉献或许有好报，可社会上也有不得善终的例子！
做一个独立的女子，一定要有一份自己的工作，不论赚钱多少，只要有份自己的收入就能够活的硬气，至少你在看上一双鞋或者想买一件衣服的时候不用商量来商量去，更不用去等待男人来给你批复这笔钱。甜言蜜语不能当饭吃，让你辞职回家做家庭主妇的男人并不是真的爱你。唯有一份真真切切的工作才能带给你一生的依靠和踏实。
做一个独立的女子，不为大富大贵，只求让自己活的有骨气，让离开了男人们的女人依然活的潇洒自在。