Sigh Sad to say until I get my slider I am always trying to stay above the 80% or suffer days of not voting at all. And like you I do have a life off the internet so I am blessed/lucky to find a few minutes to try and catch up on what those I follow are posting. Some days it is a hit or miss on catching folks.
Don't let it get you down, stay blessed that you have that extra to spread around, there are many who do understand the challenges... (((Hugs))) You are working so hard for the entire community, just remember that!