aww @markwhittam I'm so so sorry for you and your family and of course for Colette's family. I unfortunately know the toll cancer takes on the living and the sense of relief that comes when someone you love so much is no longer in pain. It of course does nothing to relieve the pain of those living now, and for that I'm unbelievably saddened. I'm sending lots of hugs and love to all; you're in my thoughts.