What a great reply here Lady Ally, or is it Aly?

Not comparing your words to any of the others is indeed most urgent, as to write from the truth in your heart is always essential. Soon you will find that others will copy your lead.
Even this is fallacy, as each of us have our own truths to display and it's wonderful to read the truths of others.

I mostly don't have to care what I write, as I simply let it flow and I think it's very similar to your own case.
And yet our truths are not the same, due to our different experiences in this thing that we call life.
However they hold equal value, as a simple truth stated is worth more than a bag full of lies that someone project themselves to be.

Charity work reveals the mirrors of many souls, as everyone has a story that mostly entails the "poor me" factor. This is good soil to toil for discernment purposes and one learns something new every day.
It is when one looks a bit deeper into the stories that the truth start to reveal itself and most of the time it's ugly truths that were covered over by the orators.

By sticking to plain honesty our posts attract all those with internal truth registers like our own.
The saying goes that we should surround ourselves with like minded people, as it will be sure to create true value in our lives!

I hope this comment is worth your kind tip and it was great to look through your eyes!
Blessings!

Stephen or Zac, whichever you prefer!