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RE: Are women who dress provocatively responsible for unwanted attention, or should men learn to control themselves? The @ecotrain question of the week
i think it's also the fact that men are not taught to necessarily center other people's emotions the way women are taught to "cater" --- and this furthermore leads men to center their own desires to the point of being so blind to what a woman wants many men profess not to even know... many years into their own relationships. i think that's all related. Related thoughts on....
I do think it's more about NOT KNOWING HOW TO HANDLE our desires. Why should every desire be filled? Shouldn't we be looking at how to handle the range of human emotions we have and how to deal with them?
I absolutely agree 100 percent and have a post planned on this topic. Thats why I shy away from being angry at men and work towards more culturally constructive solutions. XX