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RE: On Becoming A Father

in #father7 years ago

I just became a father last year. Me and mama knew eachother about two weeks before we got pregnant, and it has been a rough ride at times. I wouldn't say we started as the most compatible people. We've fought, alot.

But we're still working, we're still trying really hard and actually things are going great now. Our daughter is amazing, I love her and really want to be around for her all the time. And our relationship has improved drastically, it's amazing how much work it's taken, but it's also amazing how much it's paying off.

We are teammates, partners and always have eachothers backs, when we reach misunderstandings we talk through them, sometimes after a fight, but we always apologize and do right by our daughter.

Being a father is amazing, you have an opportunity here to both teach and grow. Babies can teach us so much and the amount of love they give is crazy. You're gonna love the experience and I'm sure you'll be a great father.

My advice on fatherhood: Keep learning, they change quick and you need to adapt with them, it's a rollercoaster, but it's not too hard, it just takes work and love.