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RE: Chaos in the life of a Brown Girl.
That's great, Amina...!
Not so long ago, even in Europe, a woman was only a good woman if she was married at some point. Of course, in conjunction with the desire to have children. Then there was a time when marriage became less important, but hey: your biological clock is ticking; you must want children...! Well, and now... Bringing children into this world...? That's a bit irresponsible, isn't it? You have to realise yourself first, find your own centre... And the climate. So many people on earth...
Nah, there's a lot of stupid time-spirit involved. For some people, marriage and family are just right, others find fulfilment and meaning in life in a different way. Only everyone can make the decision for themselves!
Unfortunately, we are still living in your old Europe.
Our biological clock has a time limit, sure, but what about those people who don't have children even after marrying young while on the other hand some have them even when they are old.
Everything has a timing and it's different for everyone. It's just as simple.
As maan @soulfuldreamer said that she knows that i believe in the charm of marriage. Of course, it can be one of the most beautiful things when two people's minds align as well.
When they are not concealing things from each other, women out of fear, and men i don't know why.
When both can discuss life and their plans with each other and their man don't belittle their stance just because they are women and have little minds.
Ameen:p
And i actually admire your marriage journey❤
And thank you to you too for asking me to write again. I might have left it but your genuine words have made my day.
Much love to both of you ladies❤❤
There is no path to marriage for me ;-)) I'm not married and I'm not considering it.
That's totally up to you😉
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