Some friends do rule that angry mood if talking to a friend since that's what friends are for as well: honesty, that listening, understanding ear if anger, frustration, hurt speaks.
Thinking what is written, meant but also what it does to us as a reader I see as a natural thing. There are also cases where I discuss it with others or search for answers before I comment.

Thanks for writing my friend. It's appreciated.

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