The Power of Vulnerability: Why It's Important to Embrace Your Imperfections
It's so easy to hide behind our masks and pretend to be perfect. But who are we really hiding from? We're hiding from the truth about ourselves and what we need to do to feel comfortable with who we are and where we want to go. Being vulnerable isn't always easy, and it doesn't always come naturally. And yet, it's the path to real success and growth.
In the first half of this post I'll explain why being vulnerable is important and how you can use it to grow your business. In the second half, I'll explain the four things you need to do to embrace your imperfections and start embracing your true self.
STEP 1: Be Transparent About Who You Are and What You Want
When we are transparent about who we are and what we want, we attract others who are also transparent. When you tell people the truth about yourself, you attract others who are also honest. And when you're honest with yourself, you find opportunities to grow.
Being vulnerable doesn't mean telling everyone your entire life story; it simply means opening up enough to let others see who you really are and what you really want. This doesn't mean revealing every mistake you've ever made, but it does mean owning up to them and letting others know.
If you're worried people won't take you seriously, think again. Being vulnerable doesn't mean telling the world you're going to quit your day job and spend the rest of your life living in a teepee in the woods. It's not about selling your dream or your passion. It's about selling the person that you are.
STEP 2: Tell the Truth, Even If You Aren't Sure Of The Answers
Vulnerability is all about authenticity. When you're authentic, you're true to yourself, even when you don't know who you are or where you're going. Authenticity leads to confidence and trustworthiness.
I'm not saying you have to walk around shouting about your failures and successes. But if you're afraid to share the details of your life, your struggles will never change. You'll keep getting the same results, and that's not growth.
STEP 3: Allow Others To Know Who You Really Are
Once you're honest about yourself, allow others to know the real you. If they ask you about your dreams and aspirations, be happy to tell them. If they ask how you got your dream job, you might even be happy to share your story.
Don't be scared of exposing your flaws and shortcomings. If you want others to see who you are, you have to show them. People love to learn from others who are open and honest, and you can use that to your advantage.
STEP 4: Embrace Yourself As You Are
When you allow others to see the real you, you also have to accept yourself as you are. You're not perfect, but you're still great. You can't ignore your imperfections and pretend you're perfect.