Let me answer to you through a quote.

“Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.”
-Oscar Wilde

That's exactly what happens when you decide to live your life according to other people standards. Sure, you shouldn't be an asshole but you shouldn't try to mimic others people behavior too.

Thank you very much for the insightful comment! I appreciate it. Upvoted and Followed :)