hey trafalgar, I just wanted to say that I think it's really cool you were brave enough to say things like that stupid condom joke! That's AWESOME. Because, in addition to what Stella said(and I think there's a lot of value in it), it's also good to not be TOO worried about the other person. I think I fall into this trap a lot, where I can go hang out with someone, and be so focused on my perceptions of them them I forget to enjoy myself for who I am.

Another way to look at it is a possible lens of filtering, you don't actually want just any girl. you want someone that is down to have fun in a way you can relate too, vinegar to your baking soda eh? sure, maybe she's pretty, but that lasts a whole of about two weeks as for as these things go. So I say, FUCKING SAY STUPID SHIT!!!! Be ridiculous, do things that scare you. If she can't step, too bad for her. You'll know when you meet someone that can =)