A agree choices are tough and we have to learn to accept our choices and learn to search for other choices so that we aren't so limited in our options. I also think that people need to stand by their choices. Today society is making more andmore excuses for people who make poor choices. Sometimes the buck stops right there. You made a bad choice. Live with it. Accept it . Own it. Learn from it. I sense a scary trend that people are no longer accountable and are more often than not unwilling to take personal responsibility for the outcomes of their choices.