The Challenges Of Making a Choice

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Some people say that life has three major regrets, don’t know how to choose, do not insist on the choice, and constantly choosing. But for me, I would say life greatest confusion, is the challenge of making choices.

Lucky people tend to overlook that the fact when people are facing with choices, they always encounter the dilemma of choices. For easy and hard choices, easy and hard are always relative and will change with the passage of time. At that time, the "easy" might become "hard", or perhaps the "hard" will become "easy" in the future. But how to determine the difficulties of the limitations of the time? It makes us anxious. When we are moving forward, easy and hard make us confused.

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The details of the choices, make us hard to decide, the increase in choices, will increase the difficulty of selecting a choice.

But as you enter the store, facing a dazzling array of goods, you are not sure what to buy, or when you face the sea and the blue sky but only can choose one, but you love both the sea and the blue sky, that makes you puzzled. When we are faced with many choices, we feel helpless.

In fact, most of the time in our life, there are many things we cannot make a choice independently. There are some things in life that we can't choose from, for example, who can choose our parent? Everyone knows the importance of life choice, but not everyone understands the embarrassment of life choice.

The result of choice, make us remorse and shame. When facing choices, we are accustomed to the contrast and want to choose something more favorable to ourselves. But God is always joking with us, the result of choice is hard to favor us, sometimes it is more difficult to be wrong. Perhaps the result itself don’t have right or wrong, with the same scenario, the same conditions, maybe the same choice is good for others, but not for ourselves.

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The choice sometimes is embarrassing, but can we evade to make a choice? You can’t run away from making choices in life, even if you do not choose, the result will choose you.

The best way to face the challenges of making choices, is to grasp the three principles, first, regardless of how complex the situation is, remember you original purpose. Choose what you need, what you want, and what suits you. Choose what you like, big to life faith, small to life habit, strive to be an elegant person, let your life have taste and style.

Second, no matter how difficult the conditions, don’t limit yourself to the current choices. Learn to jump out of the existing box when facing choices and break the limits of thinking. Who says we can only choose one or two. The world is much larger than we can see, it’s just that we are confining ourselves. In fact, we have more options, not only a or b, but there are also C, D, E ...

Third, regardless of how confused the options, do not try to force yourself to make a choice. The choice that makes you embarrassed temporarily put it aside is a kind of intelligence. When facing challenge in making a choice, time might give the best answer.

All the problems in the world can be solved in three ways: Accept, change, and leave. Accept what is acceptable, change what is unacceptable, and if you can’t change, then leave. So why can’t we solve the challenge of making a choice with this?