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RE: RobbieM: Why do women cling to men who don’t give a sh*t about them

in #life7 years ago

I agree with your point. It seems this might be a guide for those that chase the ladies and kind of extreme attitude to take. For one I think both sexes are turned off when approached from an overly needy desperate person. It shows insecurity and potential for co dependency. I do agree with a lot of what is mentioned. I would just simply say never put yourself out there too quick and for the most part the ladies let you know. Don't hit the gas til you get the green light

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Another piece of advise fitting to the topic is the importance of understanding and enjoying ones own life.

I know so many people who are entirely focused on wanting to be co-dependent with someone else to the point where they rather stick in unhealthy relationships instead of embracing the idea of fulfilling oneself for a bit.

I find that utterly unattractive. Why would I want to be together with someone who can't even bear being with herself? Love is a nice concept and all, but I want a relationship to make my life better, not needlessly more stressful, in a bad way.