MEN: 8 Things you should NEVER say to your pregnant wife
For those whom have ever been pregnant, the incredible joy and the intense pain it brings is not new anymore. Knowing what it feels like to have crazy cravings in the middle of the night and also how it feels to lose sleep because you're so not comfortable.
While this pains and suffering is so worth it when you bring your baby into the world, it isn't easy. And husbands who pretend to understand or say certain things don't make it any easier. We ladies know you mean well, but dear husbands, NEVER say these eight things to your wife when she's pregnant:
- "I invited my parents into the delivery room"
Never should you under any circumstances, EVER invite anyone into the delivery room without your wife's enthusiastic consent. She understands that this baby is just as much yours as it is hers, but giving birth is an intimate, vulnerable experience. Unless she's very excited about inviting your parents in, just assume she doesn't want an audience.
- "Why are you crying again?"
Hormones are all over the place during pregnancy, and it's completely normal for your wife to get emotional. Chances are she doesn't love crying all the time, so when she does, just hold her and let her know you're there for her. Don't invalidate her feelings.
- "How long do you think it'll take you to lose the baby weight?"
Your sweet wife is already feeling self-conscious about her body going through so many changes, and she doesn't want to think about all the baby weight she's going to have to lose. Just be patient - she'll lose it on her own time.
- "I slept amazing last night"
When your wife is far along in her pregnancy, she's uncomfortable and sleeping is almost impossible. Even if you had the best night's sleep of your life, she doesn't want to hear about it.
- "Didn't you eat an hour ago?"
Yes, she probably did eat an hour ago. But now she's hungry again. And if she doesn't get food in the near future, she's probably going to have a meltdown. Don't question your wife's food choices or frequency - she's growing a human after all.
- "Calm down"
This goes right along with asking why she's crying. Pregnancy is so stressful, from making sure the baby's healthy to getting the nursery ready. If your sweetheart is having a freak-out moment, ask how you can help make it better.
- "I think all our kids should be a year apart"
Your wife can't wait to get this sweet baby out of her, and she doesn't want to think about going through pregnancy all over again. Let her have the baby, get her body back and enjoy the newborn before you suggest having more kids.
- "I know how you feel"
You might think this is a comforting statement, but you don't know how she feels. You don't know the emotional and physical pain she's feeling, so don't pretend like you do. Instead, say "I'm sorry you feel that way" or ask "Can I do anything for you?"
It is a very delicate time in your wife's life when she's pregnant. Be sure to pay sensitive attentions to her feelings, by making sure her needs are met and going above and beyond to make sure she's happy. She'll be so grateful for your efforts and support.
Hahaha, great post. If I ever told my wife that I slept great last night, well she was pregnant I wouldn't be here typing this. There was too many times to count when she would wake me saying I am breathing too loud or making the bed to warm. I would just agree and go back asleep. No reason to poke the grizzly bear I figured.
My wife wasn't too bad actually but there was a few times when I knew to just let things go and ill live to see another day!
Haahhaaa, men should really learn from this. And y'all better start feeling her discomfort and mood swings 'cause you both got pregnant.
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