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RE: The monetary boundaries of friendship?
I think we need to get past the mindset that a business relationship and a personal relationship can't exist simultaneously.
I like you. You write things I benefit from reading, I upvote them and we both benefit.
If we're close, I help you move house and you take my kids for a weekend so I can take the wife on a sneaky holiday.
Whether it's informal bartering for mutual benefit or more formal payment for services rendered; they're each based on the idea that we exchange value for value on mutually agreeable terms.
The problem comes perhaps when only one side of the relationship thinks this way as it can lead to being taken advantage of. I agree that they should be able coexist yet too often, it ends in resentment.