RE: 10 Years in the Adult Industry-What I Learned
Thank you, I just imagine my higher self and am slowly getting more attuned to angelic/spiritual guidance. I don't know the different archangels yet. But I am learning to communicate currently!!! Luckily I am to the point where I can draw power from almost any experience I went through...not easy and working through lots still. But the power of the mind...and habits...are something I definitely am excited to dive into. Sometimes I simply channel ecstatic energy through my body...I can notice an effect in others around me even when I do this especially tantric energy work. But start breathing very deep, clenching body muscles, and imagining ecstatic clear fast energy rushing through you and out hands if using them(especially on self)..currently practicing doing this to myself. Kinda easier to do most acts of kindness to other people rather than ourselves..<3
I think there can be a danger in delving too deeply into one's darker aspects of the past, but I also know that in order for there to be any real change / healing, those aspects need to be dealt with. The removal of self blame for things outside of your control. Forgiveness for things that you knew you could make better choices, but didn't. Acceptance of it all, and your whole self.
But self kindness is the best kind of kindness. If you are broke, you are not in a position to help others.
If your needs are met, then you can help others. But this comes with caveats and limits too. Help others to help themselves.