To anyone who tells you to “Grow up”...

in #writing6 years ago (edited)
 Every child is an artist, the problem is staying an artist when you grow up. -Pablo Picasso


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On Thursdays, I attend an art class with a handful of my friends. They typically last an hour, and at the end we've all created something we are really proud of. After finishing the class and parting with my friends, the teacher instructs a new class of young kids and I stay after as her assistant. My job at first seemed simple- pass out supplies, make sure they're paying attention, etc. But the more weeks I stayed to help, the more I realized that something different was actually happening.

First off, let me say that kids amaze me sometimes. The things they say, the questions they come up with, and their ideas and creativity just blows my mind. I like working with kids, it's really an enjoyable task :)

During a particular class, the kids were being taught how to draw hot air balloons. One of the older boys was arranging his crayons carefully and testing the colors on paper. Walking over to him, I asked how he would decorate his balloon.

“I'm gonna put the colors from darkest to lightest on the balloon!” he said to me, smiling.

I smiled back and informed him, “You know what that's called? When you fade a color into another one, it's called ombre.”

His eyes seemed to light up with this new information, and he must have flagged down the teacher about three separate times to tell her, “Look, look- my balloon is ombre!”

This is the essence of childhood. The creativity and curiosity and innocence is so pure and amazing, and it is an honor to be a part of that, even in some small way. I love helping the class because these kids remind me of myself as a child. I loved art and could rub my crayon against the paper for hours upon hours at a time. And I've tried to maintain and exercise my creativity because that's an important part of my life. It brings me such joy to know that a piece of my childhood has remained with me all of this time, and I'm also seeing it displayed in front of me through these kids. Their tender hearts and excited faces are so sweet and touching, it's a loss for people who don't enjoy the presence of kids.

I guess the point of all of this is encourage imagination, not only in the little ones around you, but in yourself as well. I remember reading a social experiment that compared child-like thinking and adult thinking. The first group was asked how they would solve a series of problems. The second was asked how they would solve the same series of problems as a child. After completing this, both groups then took a test, and the results of the second group were far better than the first. Now, what does this mean?

… In all honesty, I don't actually know. All I can gather from this is that positive, imaginative thinking can sometimes lead to a better outcome. Maybe the core of it relates to the stress in our lives. I don't know. But having a more innovative mindset certainly can't hurt. The way I see it, it helps every once in a while to loosen up a bit, dare I say act like a child ;)


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I gave up on art in the 5th grade. It was a tiny school, and we had no special art teacher. Just our regular teacher. One day he handed us paper and colored chalk and told us to draw what we saw out the window. I did my best to draw the trees and the mountains. I got a "C" on my drawing. He told me I should have shaded the colors. But he had never taught us about shading colors, so I knew nothing about it. That was the day I gave up on art. I am on the far side of 60 now, and only recently have I dared to occasionally try a craft project. With proper instruction, I managed to make a Christmas card using Iris folding. I was so proud of myself! I have made two very simple Steampunk-style necklaces, and a fairy house. All of these were projects offered at our local library. It took me 50 years, but I am giving artsy projects a second try!

I really appreciate your comment! I was just saying how I never felt creative as a kid, but now it's coming more! I'm so happy for you and your projects!

Isn't it so sad when we can pinpoint the moment when a dream faded? I'm sure that teacher would feel awful to know that this experience scared you away from crafts for so long! Often - its just a casual word or criticism.... and they never realize the damage caused.
Bravo to you for coming back to it and - have you posted your creations??? i would LOVE to see the necklaces AND the fairy house if you have a chance!!! please tag me if you post ;) (or tag me with the link!)

I haven't figured out tagging yet; I think there are some things I need to sign up for or something. I'm still learning how Steemit works. But I'll try to let you know somehow, if/when I post about these things!

Hehhehee you just use the @ sign with my name :)

Like this
@dreemsteem

And GINA will notify me that you said my name in your post (or a comment) 😊

You don't have to sign up anything to tag someone. You just need to sign up if you want to be notified when someone mentions your name :)

When you're ready for that upgrade... I HIGHLY recommend GINA :)

I've been reading about GINA. Gotta get that figured out soon! That's the signing up part I meant. Time to put on my big girl panties and figure that out!

hahahaha get them on! they're way more comfortable than bikini's or thongs! hehehehehehe

and yeah - i am like you. I thought it was going to be so confusing! but it was really a step by step thing where GINA held my hand the whole way! hehehehee

i hope you enjoy her! :)

I absolutely love it! There is nothing that will brighten up my day than watching other people enjoy art! Please continue- the simple fact that you love the things you create is SO valuable, and that can't be taught!

Hey @quirky-countess,

First of all I LOVE that you attend an art class every Thursday. I haven't attended an art class in decades and maybe I should look into doing just that.

Then I just want to Thank you for serving those little ones so beautifully every week too. What a Blessing for you and for them. Enjoyed your post. Thanks so much for sharing and caring.

It really is very enjoyable to attend art classes- I would HIGHLY recommend you start going again :)
And I love how you put that-- it's a blessing for me and them-- it really is! You would think when I assist an art class, it would be the kids learning from me and the teacher, but as I wrote in the post above, kids really can teach others a lot if we're willing to just watch and listen! Thanks so much for reading, @angelacs :)

You're very Welcome, @quirky-countess! I used to tell peeps who asked how my kids were that they were fine and keeping me on my toes. ;)

It brings me such joy to know that a piece of my childhood has remained with me all of this time, and I'm also seeing it displayed in front of me through these kids.

That IS amazing, @quirky-countess! HUGE Congratzzz on that.

I always recommend that we adults all find a way to interact with kids often if we don't already have them around. Keeps us fresh and learning. ;)

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I JUST came back to double check clues and saw I'd written above but not clicked 'Post'!!! ;)

Agree!!! I'm sure those little ones will remember the days of @quirky.countess encouraging their skills!!!

Love this so much! I can just see the excitement on the face of that one little tyke who learned what "ombre" meant! 😊

I can just imagine that also!!!! hehehehe and i can hear them repeating it over and over for anyone who will listen :)

Thank you so much- it was very precious to see! :)

Yes kids never stop amazing you do they!! Their imagination is superb and should be encouraged always :)

It truly is incredible- I am so thankful for every little moment I get to spend with kids!

so agree!!!! thankful for people like @quirky.countess who pour into those little hearts!

This was a great post to read! I love that you go to an art class...and then help with all the little artists! I struggled as a kid to be creative, but I'm much better at it now as an adult. I think when I was small I always wanted to be big...maybe because I was the youngest...so now that I feel free to be me, I can let it flow!

Thank you so much- it's really encouraging to hear from such a creative Steemian! :)

Haha I see what you did there...calling me creative...buttering me up...making me feel good...WELL IT WORKED! Haha

I see you and @dreemsteem have had a fun night chatting! Isn't she the best?? Opps! I mean (@freedomtowrite scrolls back to look) Duchess Dreemsteem! 😂 So...I didn't know the quote...am I demoted to jester???

hahahahaha ohhhhhhhhhhh i love jester hats!!! ;)


Is this to your liking @freedomtowrite? :D

Haha I'd rather have crown! 😂

well you just have to be like Elsa.... and "let it flowwwwwwwww, let it flowwwwwwww"

hmmmm that doesn't sound right. ;)

Haha it doesn't...but I like where your head is!

Hahahahahhahaha you have my day starting out with giggles!!!!

Yesssssss 😂

Or even better:
"You can let it flow; stay alive for me! Let it flow, live to fight another day!"

Okay if either of you actually understand that I will pass out ;D

People will always be critical..... ;)

dreemsteem runs to go get the smelling salts to wake the countess

...NO!

NAW, GIRL!

I-I am astounded.
Why am I astounded?

I do tend to astound now and then ;)

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You are promoted to a royal position higher than countess...
Not queen, th-that's too much. Sorry.
Princess is just condescending, so no on that.
Is duchess higher than countess? Probably, right? Yeah, okay, you're the duchess now.

Duchess Dreemsteem! I like it! hehehe so fun commenting with you tonight - buttttttt. sleep for me! goodnight Countess! ;)

As a kid I played with the neighbors kid's a lot using our imagination more in lines with 'The Performing Arts' and the most often role?....get this... playing Pirate! Card board appliance box for a ship, wooden swords, the crew included the dolls and plushies, with those Chocolate gold foiled coins and I have the rotten dental records to prove it.

arggggg. i see ye be a natural born pirate then! Doesn't surprise me in the least!!! and rotten dental records be a necessity if ye want to prove yer worth as a pirate!

consider yerself authentic!!!! ;)

Hahahaha- that's awesome! And I love how many pirates are supporting this post! ;)

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Love the quote at the beginning! I also loved what my kids have shared and taught me. Being a parent is joy and challenge.

Beautifully written! I loved your post! I hope you post some of your art sometimes for us to view. That is awesome that you love working with children. Children can be very creative.

Aw thank you so much! I am thinking about posting my art on the days when I need to take a break from writing.
How was your vacation? :)

It was pretty good. There is so much from it, I will have to break it down into so many posts lol. It was a much needed break.