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yeah true but I mean it in the sense of the dark experiences make us feel powerless but they are the light experiences in disguise so it forms us, so the growth can only come from the most darkest experiences just like you say, and that's why people who been through the shitter are actually the most humble ones. :)

I'm actually planning to make an entire post about something like that and how it works on an energetic level.

I guess that's one way to look at it. I've never felt powerless, it just makes me work harder.