Why at the state, social and religious level, this understanding and attitude is like this, I cannot give a meaningful explanation. It must be very deep and very comprehensive, rooted somewhere very far back in history, in the religion that originated from it, there are probably also many conspiracy stories about the real causes, and perhaps those are the most interesting to learn. But I haven't read, I haven't dug around.
What I can say is that on a personal level, it already depends on the person himself and his emotional intelligence, his level of elevation above the crowd. It's not even about any intellectual intelligence. It is about kindness and humanity, human value. And when that happens - in the case of your father, it's the most valuable thing a person can have. You must be very proud of your father and you must love your family very much! You are truly a lucky person. 😊 Because everything starts with the family first and foremost.

Regarding the similarities between Bulgaria and Nigeria, I also continue to wonder about that. 😃 In our country, maybe this problem of not accepting girls is trying to fade with time, maybe people really evolve with time, I don't know exactly what the situation is right now, I'm just telling things from my own experience, what happened years ago and while growing up and later...