RE: Are fathers in your countries happy to have daughters?
Again, I will like to trace the history of your country, because everything is the same apart from our skin colour, accent and maybe economy.
Fathers preferring sons to daughters is even more strong here in Nigeria.
Many marriages have been broken because the woman couldn't give birth to a son.
Men have been mocked both in family level and community level because they couldn't give birth to a son.
Most families have been deprived their rights because they couldn't give birth to a son.
I can keep counting this on and in and on...
But I can assure you one thing...my father doesn't dislike his girls, he love all of us the same. We are 3 in number and I am the only son, but my father shares everything equally.
My opinion?
Sons and daughters are precious gift from nature and they are very important!
Why at the state, social and religious level, this understanding and attitude is like this, I cannot give a meaningful explanation. It must be very deep and very comprehensive, rooted somewhere very far back in history, in the religion that originated from it, there are probably also many conspiracy stories about the real causes, and perhaps those are the most interesting to learn. But I haven't read, I haven't dug around.
What I can say is that on a personal level, it already depends on the person himself and his emotional intelligence, his level of elevation above the crowd. It's not even about any intellectual intelligence. It is about kindness and humanity, human value. And when that happens - in the case of your father, it's the most valuable thing a person can have. You must be very proud of your father and you must love your family very much! You are truly a lucky person. 😊 Because everything starts with the family first and foremost.
Regarding the similarities between Bulgaria and Nigeria, I also continue to wonder about that. 😃 In our country, maybe this problem of not accepting girls is trying to fade with time, maybe people really evolve with time, I don't know exactly what the situation is right now, I'm just telling things from my own experience, what happened years ago and while growing up and later...
Fact!
My family is a blessing to me. And talking about my father, I think he has taught me alot of things about life and humanity.
I hope the idea of not considering the girl child important in some background fade out. It is not a good or healthy perception.
You have some great reasoning and brainstorming content here.
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